2. Take a Break or Break Up? – He Needs To Reassess What He Wants
He adores you. He is all over you when you’re together. He sends you the cutest damn texts, and he means all of it. But, uh-oh, it’s landed him in something way more serious than he saw coming. This is when a guy might decide he wants to reassess what he wants. It is so painful and confusing to know that a guy wants you in his life, but less than you want him. During the break, you’re going to be planning on ways to change, and if you get back together you will feel insecure—constantly watching your behavior to make sure he doesn’t call another break.
If a guy tells you he wants to reassess what it is that he wants, tell him honestly what you want out of a relationship. Lay it out right then and there. I know you might want to lie to get him to stay, but the reality is you can only pretend for so long that you want less than you want. It’s better to find out sooner rather than later if he can give that to you.